This has been an interesting and also fun week. After our Church meetings last Sunday, we had some meetings with the new Branch Pres and also the Stake Pres. Last week's church was not the best experience we've had. The stake changed our Branch boundaries and brought new people over from the Paisley Ward, and they were not happy to have to switch, to say the least.
Today was a little better. We had a open discussion during Priesthood/RS time where we talked about feeling safe, trusting and showing love. The new Branch Pres explained a little about some of the difficulties the new Branch members are experiencing over the move and it is somewhat heart wrenching for these people to leave a large ward, good friends and their kid's associations. We could really feel their pain. At the same time, we were able to share how hurt the current Branch members felt about how they felt they were treated last week. People who they have known for years actually snubbed them and they were confused as to why. This was not a Branch choice to do the boundary realignment, it was the Stake's decision(The Lords Will), so the current members were hurt and confused as to why the new members were so cold. Anyway, I think it got discussed well and what needed to be said got said, so hopefully we can all move forward and do the best we can to become unified.
We had a meeting with our Stake Pres on Thurs after Institute during which time we gave him a report of what we have been doing during our 3 months here, as far as finding "lost sheep". We found quite a few had moved, determined who was not currently interested. and found some that they hadn't been able to find. We have determined who we can work with and have been doing so, so it was nice to have something to report. Pres Dewey was quite pleased to see what we have been able to accomplish and our reporting of it. Then we told him that now that we have done all that, we find we don't have much to do and are finding it difficult to fill our time with missionary related activities. He was glad to hear that we have time to do more and he said he has some more for us to do. He told us that he is not going to let us go without a fight, and he recognizes that we have left our lives, our families and are spending our own money, so he wants to make sure we have plenty of missionary stuff to do. Now that the boundaries have been realigned, more "lost sheep" in that area need to be located, so that will take up our time for the next wee while, and there is another struggling branch in the stake that may have us do it for them too.
So, because right now we don't have that much to do, yesterday we took an extra P-day, and went down to Caerlaverock Castle just over the border from England and attended a Joust. There is a group with a long french name that I can't remember just now, but they put on what they call Spectacular Jousting at various castle venues around the country. They have a group of historical medieval reinactors that put on demonstrations of medieval life and then have scheduled jousts along with it. You all know how much I love historical reinacting, so I was in my element! The joust itself was rather cheesy, but the rest was interesting. When the knights first came out on horseback, I looked at one of them and said he was not very big for a knight. When he got off his horse to do hand to hand sword combat, I was proved right. He looked like a skinny 14 yr old boy! As I said, it was cheesy and a little silly, but we got an idea of what happened in a tournament. Believe me, "A Knight'sTale" was probably a better representation of jousting than this event.
On the way home from the jousting, we stopped by the old ruins of a church called Sweetheart Abbey. It is a beautiful, peaceful place (see some pictures on FB, posted this morning). The story of Sweetheart Abbey is that Lady Devorgilla loved her husband, John Balliol (parents of the Balliol King of Scotland before William Wallace) so much that when he died, she had his heart embalmed and carried it around with her in a beautifully made box. She called it her "silent, loving companion". When she died, the box was placed on her chest in the tomb and the stone effigy on her tomb had her holding his heart. Thus, the name "Sweetheart Abbey". She was a lady of great wealth and standing, so she had this big abbey church built and brought in Cistercian Monks to run it. We got some wonderful pictures of it. Some I think we will have blown up and will hang on our walls when we get home.
Last Monday on our actual P-day we went up to a fairy tale castle called Inverary Castle. It's not really a very old castle since it was built in the 18th century but they tried to make it look like an old castle with round turrets on the corners and a moat with no water in it. It is beautifully decorated inside with lots of large portraits of former family dukes and earls and wonderfully painted walls and ceilings. It is the ancestral home of one of the Campbell clans and the current Duke of Argyll lives there with his wife and 3 kids. Also, one of the episodes from Downton Abbey was filmed there. It's the one where they go for Christmas at a friend's castle, which they called Duneagle in the episode. So they had pictures of the cast in costume at various places in the castle.
We also went to a small picturesque town called Killin that had a nice river front area called Dochart Falls. The weather was beautiful for our outing which was a plus. While we were having lunch in a little town called Crainlarich, we were waited on by a young man who came up to us while serving and asked if we might know where a branch of the church might be. That caught us by surprise, but it turns out that he was baptized last Apr and then moved up to this town to work for the summer. He had looked around for a branch but couldn't find one. We, sadly, had to tell him that we were not aware of any Branches or even missionaries in the area. Fortunately he is only there for the summer and then will return to Kirkcaldy where he was baptized and be able to go back to church.
On our way home from Inverary, we stopped in at Doune Castle, which you will all be familiar with if you have ever seen "Monty Python and the Holy Grail". The outside of the castle and the kitchen were used in scenes from the movie. The outside was the French castle they "attacked" where cattle were thrown over the walls at them, and the kitchen was actually turned into a bedroom where Lancelot, I think, was recuperating from battle. I have only seen the movie once, so none of it was familiar to me. Guess I will need to see it again.
We are taking advantage of beautiful weather and our P-days to see as much of Scotland as we can before winter sets in. It really is a fabulously beautiful country with breathtaking vistas, that we feel very fortunate to be able to live in for a time.
We have standing dates with a couple of people we are working with every week. We visit the McKees, Robert and Ann, every Thurs for tea, which is actually dinner. She's one who joined the Church years ago and was inactive all that time. In fact, the Church record the Branch had for her was still in her maiden name. About 8 months ago, the Branch sent letters out to everyone on their rolls and asked them to come back to church, or at least contact the Branch to let them know if they were still in the area. Not many people responded, but something nudged Ann and she decided to come back. Her husband, Robert is not a member, but they both come to Church every Sunday as their health permits. Ann says she would not miss Church now for anything, except when their health is bad. The young Elders worked with them before we came, and they loved the Elders, but they said they like having us because we share more of the same life experiences and have an understanding that the Elders were too young to have. We have been sharing gospel messages and testifying of the Lords love for them. As soon as Robert can overcome his addictions, he will be baptized.
The other person we meet with regularly is Mhorag. She is related by marriage to a brother in the Branch and is a convert. She came to Church for several years after she was baptized, and then someone said something mean to her and she stopped coming. She works at the local Tesco grocery store and during our first shopping trip there, before we had really even met anyone in the Branch, I turned from the till we were at and saw her waving at me. Of course, I didn't know who she was or why she was waving at me, but we walked over and she told us that she was a member. As we left I said "see you on Sunday", not knowing that she didn't come to Church. She is a cheeky soul and she and I get along famously. She tells us places we should go and visit and tells about people in the area. She has been here for years and because she works at Tesco, she knows LOTS of people. In fact, we watched one day while we were in the shop and she was working the express till, everybody stopped to chat with her as they went out of the store. People will wait in her line to have her check them out, even if there are other tills open. She's one of those people who everybody loves because she is so much fun. She knows that we are working on getting her back to Church, but she just goes along with it, never really letting us know if we are making any headway. We have 7 more months and we are determined to see her at Church at least once before we leave! We are sharing lessons about various gospel subjects with her and leaving our testimony.
We love you all!
Haste Ye Back!
Elder and Sister Walker
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